Very often, when I came across articles like bullying, several questions would go through my mind....What are the reasons of bullying?Why do bullies want to do that? Somehow, I always feel that all these cases of bullying are usually due to family problems like; lack of family members care, concern and love,etc...
From what I've seen, bullies often bullies people because they want to attract attention from their parents. From young, many parents would have employ a maid to take care of the children's well-being. Parents often think that a maid can play the role of parents, which is definetely not true. By handling the children over to the maid, neglecting them, this is actually the main cause of bullying.
In this article, this big bully goes around, bullying people as wants to attract his parent's attention. In his point of view, he thinks that his parents are neglecting him.He thinks that his parents don't love him because he's not good at anything and only knows how to get into trouble.
He feels inferior as he has a brother who never fail to excel in his studies.All these feelings of uselessness causes him to vent his anger and frustrations on his classmate by hurting them physically, which eventually cause him to get kicked out by the school...
After this incident, he finally came to his senses and realised that all that he have done is wrong and he is truely rependent....
In a nutshell, parents, should not spend all their time , trying to build up their career.Instead, they should spend more time to understand their children and give them the love that they need. With the love and concern they receive from their parents and family members, they would then be able to excel in their future career prospects.
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